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What’s Up, girl?

It's Judith Pereira

Your go-to person when that extremely charming boyfriend of yours tells you that “it’s over”.

Heartbreak Coach. Writer. Psychology nerd. Hopeless romantic. Disney gal. Huge Hallmark movie buff. Indian Street Food enthusiast. Swiftie. Dreamer. Achiever. Most importantly, a precious daughter of the Most High. And your to-be BFF

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OK FINE, I admit it-

I wasn't always this obsessed with break-up stories and sad songs...

But I know exactly where you are.  Because I was you, not a long time ago.

You feel stuck. There’s mixed emotion. It hurts so bad and you wonder if the pain will ever stop. Every night is hard, the days are sad and miserable. You can’t stop thinking about him. It’s sad because you just lost the intimacy and closeness- you wonder if you’ll ever find that again. “Thinking Positively” doesn’t really work. You feel rejected, alone, unworthy and shameful. You’re grappling with fear, this deep uncertainty about your future. You wonder if he’ll ever come back…

Yep. That was me. 100%

My Story

I was madly in love. I even knew what flowers I’d have at our wedding. Until the day when he felt like we shouldn’t see each other anymore. It was bad. I felt addicted to my ex- nothing felt better than the idea of getting back with him. I couldn’t stop thinking about him. 

Moving on was like, seriously, unfathomable (or so I thought). It hurt me every time I looked up his social media and saw how much fun he was having. Like, I wasn’t a priority at all. I wanted to get out of bed, laugh,  go out with my friends and feel joy again, but it was such a far flung idea. 

I wanted to put an end to the crying, the constant overthinking, loneliness, the feelings. But I didn’t know where to start. I felt like I had lost myself in the relationship and I couldn’t remember who I was anymore.

Years later, here I am-  Feeling better than I ever have, happy, glowing, thriving, standing firmly because of my identity in Christ Jesus

And along the way…

Here's what I came to understand:

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Here's the thing, sis

Empowerment is not just a lot of money, or a huge following, or great success in your business. 

You’re not truly empowered if you have to cry into your pillow at night, and pretend to be happy the next morning. To keep hurting, going through life with only half the joy God gives, showing up everywhere with a mask…

THAT IS NOT WHO YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE. 

Ephesians 4:1 says, “…lead a life worthy of your calling, for you have been called by God.” 

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THE PLACE for women who want to do more than just “move on”

My 1:1 coaching program is tailored (or dare I say taylor-ed) to bring healthy healing because I know you don’t want to carry that pain into your fairytale. We both know you deserve better.

I walk by you as we befriend all your feelings, get to the core of YOU and do some solid work right there. You will leave with a healed heart, Firm footsteps, glowing skin and an unshakeable confidence in who you are- Talk about real healing, yeah?




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“Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory He will reveal to us later.” – Romans 8:18